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Chandana  Rathnayake

BACP, NCPS

Chandana Rathnayake , BACP, NCPS

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Chandana

Chandana Rathnayake brings a distinct blend of life experience and professional training to his counselling practice. He began practising as a counsellor in Malaysia in 2013 and relocated to the United Kingdom in 2019, where he also serves as a mental health adviser supporting young adults in the higher education sector. He holds credentials with BACP and NCPS - BACP denotes membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy and NCPS is a professional counselling credential.

Before entering formal counselling, Chandana spent twenty years living as a Buddhist monk in Sri Lanka, a period that shaped his outlook and informed his later study of psychology and counselling. After leaving the monkhood he chose to focus on family life, a change that now sits alongside his clinical work and informs his relational perspective.

His therapeutic style draws on both traditional practices and contemporary counselling methods, encouraging clients to notice and make use of the resources they already carry. He often works with difficult material - loss, betrayal, anxiety, overthinking and low self-regard - treating these experiences as raw ingredients that can be reshaped into something more resilient. He is particularly suited to people searching for purpose, motivation or direction in areas such as career, education or spirituality, and to those facing grief or major life transitions. He also works with clients struggling with self-worth and with individuals experiencing relationship difficulties, noting his work is focused on individuals rather than couples. Chandana conducts therapy in English and Sinhala and accepts international clients.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support



Chandana uses client-centered therapy to create a respectful, empathetic environment where the client leads the pace and focus of sessions. This approach emphasizes understanding each person’s experience and can be particularly helpful for issues like low self-esteem, grief, and struggles with direction. He also draws on Internal Family Systems, a model that explores how different parts of a person, such as protective or wounded parts, interact. This work can be useful for trauma, shame, compulsive behaviors and internal conflicts. When appropriate, existential ideas are woven into therapy to explore questions of meaning, purpose and responsibility, aiding those facing life transitions or a sense of emptiness.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey and Chandana treats it as a collaborative process. He works with clients to identify goals, test what helps, and adjust methods over time so the work fits each person’s needs, values and preferences.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility - sessions can take place by video call or phone, or through live chat and text-based messaging - making it easier to fit therapy into busy lives or to continue support across distances. These options allow regular contact, smoother scheduling and continued access to a licensed professional regardless of location.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Chandana Rathnayake have?

Chandana Rathnayake has 10 years of experience working as a counsellor.

Is Chandana Rathnayake a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the credentials BACP and NCPS. BACP denotes membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and NCPS is a professional counselling credential.

In which languages does Chandana Rathnayake provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English and Sinhala.

Where is Chandana Rathnayake located?

He is based in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Chandana Rathnayake as my therapist?

You can work with Chandana Rathnayake through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Chandana Rathnayake work with international clients?

Yes, Chandana Rathnayake works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Chandana Rathnayake cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the Start Therapy button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the Start Therapy button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyGriefSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCodependencyCoping with natural or human-caused disasterEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English, Sinhala

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