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Dabney Hayes

LPCC, LPC

Dabney Hayes , LPCC, LPC

Therapist in North Carolina

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About Dabney

Dabney Hayes is a licensed counselor with 14 years of clinical experience helping people address a wide range of emotional and relational challenges. She works with individuals, families, adolescents, and young adults in both individual and group settings, drawing on a warm, nonjudgmental approach to support healing from shame, addiction, trauma, grief, and low self-esteem. Dabney also assists clients coping with everyday stressors such as relationship conflict, parenting concerns, work and school difficulties, anger, and mood concerns.

Her practice emphasizes an integrative, client-centered orientation that combines several therapeutic methods to meet each person where they are. She utilizes Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help clients clarify values and take purposeful action, Attachment-Based Therapy to address relational patterns and family dynamics, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify and shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills for emotional regulation and distress tolerance. Her listed credentials - LPCC and LPC - indicate that she holds state licenses as a professional counselor.

Dabney approaches work with compassion and respect, offering supportive, practical guidance tailored to each person s goals. She focuses on helping clients build confidence, develop healthier relationships with their thoughts and feelings, and pursue more authentic, resilient lives.

Therapeutic Approaches Suited for Online Care



Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then commit to actions that reflect their values. It is often used for anxiety, depression, stress, and patterns that get in the way of meaningful living. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on relationship patterns formed early in life and explores how those patterns affect current family and intimate relationships - it can be helpful for attachment issues, abandonment concerns, parenting challenges, and relational conflict. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) concentrates on identifying and changing unhelpful thought and behavior patterns, making it useful for addressing anxiety, mood concerns, and everyday coping skills.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Dabney works collaboratively with each person to identify which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences, and she adapts techniques as progress unfolds. The process emphasizes listening, practical skill-building, and aligning therapy with what matters most to the client.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to connect - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging - so care can fit into busy schedules and reach people who live far away or need different formats. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care, practice skills between sessions, and access support in ways that suit individual routines and life circumstances.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Dabney Hayes have?

Dabney Hayes has 14 years of experience as a therapist.

Is Dabney Hayes a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credentials LPCC and LPC, which are state licenses for professional counselors. License details are CA LPCC 21269 and CO LPC 0016842.

In which languages does Dabney Hayes provide therapy?

She provides therapy in English.

Where is Dabney Hayes located?

She is located in North Carolina.

How can I work with Dabney Hayes as my therapist?

You can work with Dabney Hayes through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Dabney Hayes work with international clients?

Yes, Dabney Hayes works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Dabney Hayes cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist s availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepressionCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Licensed

North Carolina, Florida, Washington, Colorado, California, South Carolina

Languages

English

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