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Dr. Jennifer De Costa

LMFT

Dr. Jennifer De Costa , LMFT

Therapist in Hawaii

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About Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer De Costa is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in Hawaii with 22 years of clinical experience. She trained as a marriage and family therapist and has worked extensively with individuals, adolescents, and families facing a broad range of concerns, including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, parenting challenges, and the consequences of trauma or abuse.

Her approach to counseling is interactive, supportive, and empowering. She emphasizes dignity and respect while helping people identify and build on their strengths rather than focusing only on what is wrong. Her work blends solution-focused techniques with narrative therapy - which explores the stories that shape a person's life - and systems theory - which examines the various contexts and relationships that influence well-being.

Dr. De Costa collaborates with clients to design treatment plans tailored to each person or family's unique needs and goals. She values the courage it takes to seek help and aims to provide practical tools and attentive listening to support meaningful change. Her practice centers on fostering resilience, restoring connection, and guiding clients as they navigate life transitions and healing journeys.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on the individual as the expert on their own life, offering a compassionate, nonjudgmental space where a person can explore feelings and values. It is often helpful for issues like low self-esteem, life transitions, and relationship concerns because it prioritizes the client’s goals and pace.

Motivational Interviewing is a collaborative, goal-oriented style that helps people resolve ambivalence and find internal motivation to make changes. It is particularly useful for challenges such as addictions, coping with change, and taking steps toward healthier habits.

Narrative Therapy examines the stories people tell about themselves and their lives, helping to reframe problems and highlight strengths. This approach can support healing after trauma, grief, or long-standing patterns that feel limiting.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and Dr. Jennifer De Costa works collaboratively with each person to determine which methods best fit their needs, goals, and preferences. She and the client will adjust strategies as progress is made and circumstances evolve.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, making it easier to schedule care around daily life and maintain continuity during busy periods. For many people, these options increase accessibility and make it simpler to stay engaged with a therapist over time.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Dr. Jennifer De Costa have?

Dr. Jennifer De Costa has 22 years of experience.

Is Dr. Jennifer De Costa a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credential LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Her license details are HI LMFT MFT-272.

In which languages does Dr. Jennifer De Costa provide therapy?

Dr. Jennifer De Costa provides therapy in English.

Where is Dr. Jennifer De Costa located?

Dr. Jennifer De Costa is located in Hawaii.

How can I work with Dr. Jennifer De Costa as my therapist?

You can work with Dr. Jennifer De Costa through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Dr. Jennifer De Costa work with international clients?

Dr. Jennifer De Costa does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Dr. Jennifer De Costa cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseGriefCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorder

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyForgivenessIsolation / lonelinessLife purpose

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Licensed

Hawaii

Languages

English

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