Lawrence Losoncy , LMFT

Lawrence Losoncy is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and a fellow of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. With 46 years of clinical experience in Oklahoma, he brings extensive work with families, couples, parents and caregivers to each session. He is comfortable working with just one family member while helping that person take insights and practical guidance back to their household to foster healthier relationships and better functioning.

He has particular experience supporting parents and caregivers of troubled children, including those on the autism spectrum, and has spent six years serving as an Indian Child Welfare Director for a tribe in Oklahoma. Lawrence listens carefully, offers clinical observations and recommendations, and collaborates with clients to develop an action plan they find useful and realistic.

Over his career he has addressed a wide range of concerns such as relationship and intimacy issues, grief, parenting challenges, stress and anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, sleep problems, anger, self-esteem, career concerns, and coping with life changes. He has also worked with people dealing with spiritual or religious wounds and with single parents.

Lawrence is the author of six recently published books available on Amazon, including The One Week Manager; Those First Six Years; The 7th Contract; Healing from Spiritual and Religious Wounds; Beyond the Vows; and the novel The End of North America. His approach combines attentive listening with practical suggestions intended to produce measurable, manageable change.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care

Lawrence draws on client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and emotionally-focused therapy (EFT) to meet varied needs. Client-centered therapy emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental stance where the therapist follows the client’s lead to build understanding and self-directed change - it is helpful for people seeking support with life transitions, self-esteem, and relationship concerns.

CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and behavioral patterns and replacing them with more effective strategies; it is often used for anxiety, depression, stress, sleep difficulties and coping with addictive behaviors. EFT centers on emotions and attachment bonds, and is particularly useful for couples and intimacy-related issues by helping partners express needs and rebuild connection.

Finding the right approach is part of the collaborative process. Lawrence works with each person to determine which methods fit their goals, preferences and the issues they bring, adapting techniques as progress unfolds.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to engage - video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging allow people to access support from home or while traveling. These options make scheduling easier and can help integrate therapy into busy lives, while allowing licensed professionals and therapists to provide consistent, ongoing care adapted to each client’s circumstances.