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Mary Shands

LPC

Mary Shands , LPC

Therapist in Texas

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About Mary

Mary Shands is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with more than 12 years of experience supporting clients from pre-K age through late adulthood. She has practiced in a variety of settings, including school districts serving both special education and general education populations, an insurance company, programs for veterans, a substance abuse treatment center, and a sexual offender treatment program. Her background gives her practical experience addressing a wide range of concerns such as trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, parenting difficulties, emotional abuse, and separation issues related to adoption.

Mary uses an integrative approach that includes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Reality Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, and Mindfulness-Based techniques to tailor care to each person she sees. She brings strong listening skills, genuine care, and an energetic presence to sessions, and she remains current on required trainings in both states where she is licensed. In addition to direct clinical work, Mary offers presentations and training to various audiences.

She also has experience helping people cope with mental health concerns related to COVID-19, codependency, issues affecting women and teens, and self-esteem struggles. Colleagues describe her demeanor as warm and approachable, and she enjoys the opportunity to talk with and listen to others as they work toward change.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care

Mary draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment-Based ideas, and Client-Centered principles to guide online work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thought and behavior patterns - it is often used for anxiety, depression, and stress-related concerns. Attachment-Based approaches explore how early relationships influence current connections and can be especially useful for relationship challenges, abandonment or adoption-related issues, and intimacy concerns. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes empathic listening and collaboration, helping people find their own strengths and goals while feeling heard and respected.



Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Mary works collaboratively with each person to determine which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences, adjusting strategies as progress unfolds.



Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility and access. These options allow clients to attend from home or other convenient locations, fit care into busy schedules, and maintain continuity of support when life circumstances change. As a licensed professional, Mary aims to make therapy practical and adaptable to each client's life.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Mary Shands have?

Mary Shands has 12 years of professional experience working with clients across the lifespan.

Is Mary Shands a licensed therapist?

Yes. Mary holds the LPC credential, which stands for Licensed Professional Counselor. She is licensed in Missouri and Texas - MO LPC 2014024447 and TX LPC 77506.

In which languages does Mary Shands provide therapy?

Mary provides therapy in English.

Where is Mary Shands located?

Mary is located in Texas.

How can I work with Mary Shands as my therapist?

You can work with Mary through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Mary Shands work with international clients?

Yes, Mary works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Mary Shands cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with a therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCancerCodependencyControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFirst responder issuesForgivenessHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

12+ years

Licensed

Missouri, Texas

Languages

English

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