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Patricia Sumlin

LMFT

Patricia Sumlin , LMFT

Therapist in Washington

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About Patricia

Patricia Sumlin is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with 25 years of clinical experience helping people navigate complex emotional and relational challenges. She combines evidence-informed methods with a straightforward, compassionate manner to support clients working through anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and family concerns, addictions, grief, neurodiversity issues such as ADHD and Asperger's, and identity matters including LGBT concerns. Patricia emphasizes practical skill building alongside insight so clients develop tools to manage emotions, improve relationships, and regain a sense of stability and competence.

Her background includes leadership and hands-on roles across diverse settings - from creating DBT groups and directing behavioral health services to providing trauma-informed care in rural and Indigenous communities and offering end-of-life and bereavement support. That breadth of experience informs a culturally aware, systems-oriented approach that honors each person’s story and context. Patricia draws from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and client-centered principles to tailor treatment to individual needs.

Patricia is known for being direct, nonjudgmental, and respectful, prioritizing honest collaboration with clients as they set goals and practice new skills. Her practice stresses clear boundaries, practical strategies, and education so people gain confidence in their capacity to cope, build resilience, and pursue meaningful change in their lives.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care



Patricia uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help clients clarify personal values, develop psychological flexibility, and take meaningful action despite difficult thoughts or feelings. ACT can be useful for anxiety, depression, and life transitions where getting unstuck is a goal.

Attachment-Based Therapy is another core approach Patricia employs; it focuses on understanding how early relationship patterns shape current bonds and emotional responses. This work supports people working through intimacy issues, attachment wounds, and relational conflict by strengthening healthier ways of connecting.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) provides structured skills for regulating intense emotions, improving distress tolerance, and enhancing interpersonal effectiveness. DBT techniques are especially helpful for clients who struggle with emotional reactivity, self-harm urges, or chronic relationship turmoil.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Patricia works with clients to assess needs, preferences, and goals, and she blends methods to create an individualized plan that feels practical and doable.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to engage in this work through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit sessions into busy schedules, maintain continuity during life transitions, and access support from licensed professionals without geographic constraints.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Patricia Sumlin have?

Patricia Sumlin has 25 years of experience.

Is Patricia Sumlin a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credential LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details: CA LMFT 44844, WA LMFT LF 60059026.

In which languages does Patricia Sumlin provide therapy?

Patricia provides therapy in English.

Where is Patricia Sumlin located?

Patricia is located in Washington.

How can I work with Patricia Sumlin as my therapist?

You can work with Patricia Sumlin through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Patricia Sumlin work with international clients?

Patricia Sumlin does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Patricia Sumlin cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Licensed

California, Washington

Languages

English

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