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Toni Hernalsteen

LMSW

Toni Hernalsteen , LMSW

Therapist in Michigan

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About Toni

Toni Hernalsteen is a licensed social worker in Michigan with 17 years of professional experience supporting individuals, couples, and groups through life transitions and complex challenges. She holds an LMSW, which indicates she is a Licensed Master Social Worker, and an Advanced Alcohol and Drug Counselor credential in Michigan (CAADC), reflecting specialized training in substance use concerns.

Over the years she has helped people manage stress and anxiety, cope with addictions, navigate grief and loss, address depression, and work through relationship and aging-related issues. Toni combines creativity and practical problem solving, often thinking outside the box to locate motivation and help clients persevere through difficult periods. Her approach draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy as well as Family Systems and Client-Centered methods, and she has received additional training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, Motivational Interviewing, and Mindfulness.

Toni emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and compassion in every interaction. She practices active listening and collaborates with clients to tailor dialogue and treatment plans to their unique needs, creating a space for reflection and growth. She recognizes that beginning therapy takes courage and affirms each person for taking that first step.

Evidence-Based Approaches for Online Therapy



Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps clients clarify their values and take meaningful steps even when difficult thoughts or feelings arise. It is useful for stress, anxiety, and life transitions by teaching acceptance strategies and committed action.

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on building a supportive, nonjudgmental relationship where the therapist follows the client's lead. This approach helps people gain self-understanding and confidence to address relationship, grief, or self-esteem concerns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) targets unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns, offering practical skills to reduce symptoms of depression, anxiety, and other challenges through structured exercises and problem solving.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Toni works with each person to explore which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences and adjusts the plan as progress unfolds.

Online therapy makes these approaches more accessible through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options provide scheduling flexibility, easier access from home or work, and multiple ways to communicate so clients can select the format that best supports their participation and consistency in care.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Toni Hernalsteen have?

Toni Hernalsteen has 17 years of professional experience.

Is Toni Hernalsteen a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the LMSW credential. License details: MI LMSW 6801090847.

In which languages does Toni Hernalsteen provide therapy?

Toni Hernalsteen provides therapy in English.

Where is Toni Hernalsteen located?

She is located in Michigan.

How can I work with Toni Hernalsteen as my therapist?

You can work with Toni Hernalsteen through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Toni Hernalsteen work with international clients?

Toni Hernalsteen does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Toni Hernalsteen cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesGriefDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Licensed

Michigan

Languages

English

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